The reason you’re not getting an answer is because you’re simply asking for help without trying to do this stuff yourself, everything you just said is possible, some of it is even in the FAQ’s, though the fact you’re not even checking there, nevermind checking the files themselves to figure it out.
If you want your own server, you NEED to learn how to do things on your own, otherwise it becomes other people creating your server for you.
Most of the stuff you need help with is in obvious places as well (as in file names), or logical places at least. For instance the P in licences is vrp/modules/basic_garage.lua
Tip - cfg = most thing you want to touch and edit yourself
modules = server sided files (databases included)
client = client stuff (like things people see on their screens)
By default you don’t lose inventory when respawning via E (no EMS online) - you can check yourself in vrp/modules/player_state.lua - line 57 regarding resetting health, below that (1 line) if there is no vRP.clearInventory(user_id) then it doesn’t remove your inventory. Maybe another resource clashing with the respawn?
You haven’t followed the video as you’ve not even set up your database, watch it again and do everything step by step.