I need to take out where when u crash u fly out of the car windows but i cant find where it could be in my server idk if its a script running in my server but i dont think it is
This is likely to be in the same script you have for seatbelts.
i dont have a seatbelt script in my server
Use a text editor like sublime or visual studio code, open your resources folder in it and use the option to search all files for SetPedToRagdoll and you may find the file that causes this to happen
There is a way now to enable this so probably also search for game_enableFlyThroughWindscreen and SetFlyThroughWindscreenParams
If you need any further help feel free to DM me.