Cannot join servers (Deferring connection)

[kruppelon]

Environment questions
**GTA V version:Latest
**Up to date:Yes
**Legit or Pirate copy:Legit
**Purchased where - Steam/Rockstar Launcher/Epic:Steam
**Windows version:10
**Did you try to delete content_index.xml and try again?Yes, I can get past deferring connection, but then I just get stuck on connecting to “serverip”
**System specifications:3080ti, 5800x, 16gb ram
**CitizenFX crash zip file (‘Save information’ on a crash):n/a
**logs/CitizenFX_log files:CitizenFX.ini (130 Bytes)
**.dmp files/report IDs:n/a

If you can’t start the game at all

GTA V folder screenshot:
GTA V/update/x64/dlcpacks screenshot:
Filepath to FiveM folder:
FiveM client folder screenshot:
Which antivirus/firewall software are you using?
Did you try to disable/uninstall your Anti-virus?

Important parts

What is the issue you’re having?
I cant join any servers, I always get stuck on deferring connection, only when I delete content_index.xml I get past it but then I get stuck again.
What are you trying to do?
Play fivem
What have you tried already to fix the issue?
Cleared the cache, deleted content_index.xml, uninstalled it multiple times
Error screenshot (if any):

What did you do to get this issue?
I wanted to start playing fivem again so I installed it, hasnt worked since
What server did you get this issue on? Be specific and name some, ‘all of them’ by itself isn’t useful!
A few servers, mostly public ones with all of them having the same error.

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