Sharing a ride? Horses and wagons RDR2

Anyone know of a way to make it possible to share a ride like on horses and wagons instead of kicking the other player of when you try to climb on?

If you are using VORP gamemode (meaning you are using vorp_stables) you can do it by pressing E to share the ride and F to kick the player and “steal” the horse/cart

not sure how I over looked that but… thanks that works!