RedM infinite loading screen when joining a server

RDR2 version? 1.03 1311.23
Up to date? Yes
Legit or Pirate copy? Legit
Steam/Epic Games/Social Club? Social Club
Windows version? Windows 10
Did you try to delete caches.xml and try again? Yes
Error screenshot (if any) None
System specifications i7 4790 16gb ram, 1070 ti
What did you do to get this issue? Tried loading into a server
What server did you get this issue on? Frontiers RP & Tombstone
Latest CitizenFX_log file CitizenFX_log_2020-10-12T225410.log (70.2 KB)
.dmp files/report IDs Can’t find them

If an issue with starting:
RDR2 folder screenshot
RDR2/x64/dlcpacks screenshot
Filepath to RedM folder This PC > Games (E:) > RedM
RedM client folder screenshot
Did you try to disable/uninstall your Anti-virus? Yes
Did you start Rockstar Games Launcher not as admin? Yes, since RedM tells you it needs to be ran normally.

Also add what you already tried so far.

I tried disabling antivirus, my firewall, also allowed RedM in firewall & to exclusions in my anti virus, I checked web filters none were being blocked, cleared RedM Cache, verified RDR2 game files, updated graphics card, stepped away for several hours to see if it would finally load, tried internet test seems to be fine, only other suggestion I haven’t tried was the VPN but I’m located in Canada and FiveM has worked flawlessly in the past for me so not sure why I would need that for RedM but any help is appreciated.

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