Hi, @Knoksk.
I think I know how it probably feels like. I guess that varies with each server and community. I am still new in FiveM, even though I am building my own server for months now. But I’ve decided to build server, because I’ve wanted to race with my friends with more realistic (and illegal) manner. Then, I’ve started to add more things that could immerse the gameplay overall. And, right now, we have already fully working RP base (based on ESX), but without any trainers. That’s was my goal from the beginning. No running and screaming “failed RP!” 
Speaking of RP, for now, we have only PD fully operable and some stable and edited jobs. I will focus more in next weeks on EMS and firefighters as well on other jobs.
Like I’ve said, our server is heavily focused on cars, meaning we have almost 100 add on cars atm. buyable via dealership and tunable in LSC and Benny’s (no performance mods, those will come later on). I am adding cars and even fixing them, making add ons from replacements (mostly because of prevention against FPS issues that other servers might have). And we do regular car meet ups 
Feel free to check it out and give us some feedback, whenever you will like it or not.