[Need Help] How can i "link" The MySQL to my VPS

Hello, i need help again ^^
So i wanted to install the essential mod to our server, Our server is hosted on a VPS and we edit the server (install mods etc…) with FileZilla :

I followed this video : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9lrHLHVE4Ro

I installed everthing like in the video, and i’m at this point.


but the MySQL is in Local and i want to link it to my VPS server (to this:

How can i do ? What do i need to change ? To apply the modifications ?

Thanks for the help, Sorry for my bad English

Someone have an idea ?

again it stated in the release for Essential Mode

LIMITED SUPPORT

meaning if you don’t know how to do the MySQL
then DONT try it