I keep getting timed out from every server using mumble happens randomly have more chance timing out next to other players

Operating System (Windows/Linux): windows

Describe your issue i load in then every 5 to 10 minutes usually (can happen anytime) i get a server warning from mumble(on the f8 menu) that says "Warning: Server is not responding to TCP pings. which then leads the game to close by a timeout that i sent above. and then a crash message

What have you tried?
clearing cache
reinstalling both redm and rdr2
resetting my modem and router
resetting my Ethernet adaptors and drivers
no firewall active
adding pure_0 to the redm file
changing version of redm
enabling ASYNC COMPUTING
restarting pc
I did ping checks as well and found no jump it was a steady 4ms to the 8.8.8.8
tried pingplotter as well with no internet issues
have 1000 download and 96 upload speed

that is what i get before i crash sometimes i survive and mumble sends something about reconnecting and if not i crash and get that time out message