No worries. If more people were willing to help we’d have better servers to choose from so I’m happy to do so. I know I sure could have used some help when i first started a couple of months ago.
I could be wrong but I don’t believe Lambda menu is server sided and most servers that I have seen that use it, usually have instructions in a starting tutorial or loading screen telling people to go and download it. The best alternative I can suggest is using vmenu. In my opinion its actually better and its server sided so all the time and weather syncs between players and you can run it with scripthook disabled so you don’t have people running around spawning tug boats and stuff and ruining people’s rp. It has just as many options as lambda plus more. This way everyone who joins will have an easy time without having to download plugins just to create a character or spawn cars, etc. With vmenu you can set ace permisssions so only you and select players can use options such as god mode or no clip, etc… If you have anymore questions, feel free to ask and I’ll answer as best as I can. Unfortunately I am currently unemployed so in the short time I’ve been doing this I have learnt a lot with all the downtime I’ve had between job searching/interviews. Anyways, here the link: vMenu v3.1.3