So, I looked into the MySQL Async Library and converted it for SQL Server and actually got it working by finding and downloading these libraries:
Mono.Data.Tds
I18N
I18N.West
If anyone would like me to put that code up on github and make a release post, just let me know.
Now I’m going to try and use this knowledge to get my code first version for SQL Server working.
Thank you to everyone that provided help of any kind.